1– Joseph Addison, 3 Elements of Happiness

2– Douglas Bader, Handicaps

3– Charles A. Beard, Man's Purpose

4– John Bogle , Investing

5– Bertolt Brecht, Initiative

6– Robert Browning , Making the Effort

7– Giordano Bruno, Conviction

8– Edmund Burke, Doing the Right Thing

9– Albert Camus, Hope

10– Thomas Carlyle, Making a Difference

11– Dale Carnegie, Showing Appreciation

12– Winston Churchill, Courage and Listening

13– Marcus Tullius Cicero, Suspicions

14– Arthur Compton, Advantages of Modern Life

15– Kevin Costner, Staying True to Yourself

16– Bette Davis, Creativity and Money

17– Jefferson Davis, Subservience and Pride

18– Charles Dickens, The Ends Don't Justify the Means

19– George Eliot, Regrets

20– Ralph Waldo Emerson, Actions Speak Louder Than Words

21– Epictetus, Becoming Your Best Self

22– Malcolm Forbes, Character

23– Harrison Ford, Success and Individuality

24– Benjamin Franklin, Self-esteem vs. Popularity

25– Thomas Fuller, Hope

26– Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, Happiness and Harmony

27– Romain Gary, Humor and Dignity

28– Douglas Haig, No Surrender

29– Ernest Hemingway, Pressure

30– Victor Hugo, Obscure Struggles

31– Zora Neale Hurston, Making the Effort

32– Washington Irving, Women and Adversity

33– William James, Attitude

34– Thomas Jefferson, Style Vs Principle

35– Helen Keller, Changing the World

36– Robert F. Kennedy, Effort

37– Martin Luther King, Jr., Pride in Work

38– Charles Kingsley, Value of Work

39– Abraham Lincoln, Daily Life

40– Vince Lombardi, Resilience

41– George Leigh Mallory, Challenge

42– Abraham Maslow, Fulfillment Through Work

43– David McKay, Challenge

44– Friedrich Nietzsche, Self-Respect

45– Louis Nizer, Religion

46– Thomas Paine, Profiting from Adversity

47– Louis Pasteur, Ideals

48– Alexander Pope, Admitting Mistakes

49– Christopher Reeve, Dreams

50– Eleanor Roosevelt, Confronting Fear

51– Franklin D. Roosevelt, Happiness and Achievement

52– Theodore Roosevelt, No Excuses

53– E. Merrill Root, Work and Happiness

54– John Ruskin, Learning from Others

55– George Santayana, Lovers and Philosophers

56– William Shakespeare, Be Yourself

57– George Bernard Shaw, Creating Opportunity

58– John Steinbeck, Leadership

59– Robert Louis Stevenson, Potential

60– Thomas Szasz, Finding Yourself

61– Leo Tolstoy, What is Art?

62– Anthony Trollope, Against the Odds

63– Wang Yang-ming, Mistakes

64– Booker T. Washington, Rising Above Hatred

65– Hugh White, Focus on the Future

 
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Becoming Your Best Self
Epictetus

 
     
 
  "First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do."
   
  Epictetus (55 - 135), Roman Philosopher
 
     
     
  The best-known proponent of Stoicism during the Roman Empire, Epictetus was known for practicing what he preached – simplicity and virtue as a path to contentment. Like many of the ancient philosophers, he was a lecturer, not a writer: the "Discourses" which are attributed to him were lectures transcribed by one of his students. His primary concern was ethics, and he believed that the only thing which truly belonged to an individual was his will, or purpose. While an individual could and should control his actions (but not thoughts), he should not attempt to control the world around him – Epictetus believed in accepting that world. Man’s responsibility is to learn and implement the will of God, a point of view that made Epictetus quite popular with early Christians.

Epictetus was born a slave; it is not known how he gained his freedom. He lived in a small hut with only a bed and a lamp for furnishings, and adopted a child who had been given up by an impoverished friend. He suffered from poor health. Epictetus lived in various places throughout the Roman Empire, and had to leave Rome in the year 89 due to a decree by the Emperor Domitian banishing all philosophers. He spent the rest of his life in Greece.